we let them quit:(

I say we because Brian fully supported the decision.  We decided to stop dance class. The crying, screaming, begging, basically panic attacks by both of them starting on Sundays for the Tuesday class were just too much to handle, for all of us. Especially for an extra curricular activity that is supposed to be FUN. I'm not sure if this was all just too much at once, but either way, we'll try again when they are older (if they WANT to). I realize this was not a great "life lesson" for them, but it was for me!...don't prepay anything that involves kids! Brian also suggested that maybe they should be in different extra curricular activities when they are older, to take away some of that twin thing they have going (if one gets upset the other might as well join in don't ya know!?) I think this is brilliant, and hope they will branch out to have their own interests.  They did end up giving me some of my money back and reassured me that this happens sometimes).  So there you have it.  I wish they could be the "normal" little girls that go and have fun and don't freak out about every little things, but for now...they aren't there yet. I'm really upset about it and am second guessing the decision, a lot....but I guess that's parenting 101.